How Acting Like A Girl Can Attract Women

Since we were small children we were taught to act manly and dominant.

We were consciously - and unconsciously - warned not to act like a woman or else there would be dire consequences.

We learnt this from our parents, teachers, the media, and friends.

Perhaps an example would shed light on this.

Take a visit to a local toy store.

You'll notice that most toys aren't for boys and girls.

In the boys section you'll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.

In the girl's section you'll find Barbie dolls and Dora the Explorer.

These toys aren't just "toys." They're teaching aids for training kids to become a man or a woman.

If a boy is caught brushing a Brat dolls hair his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.

If his parents catch him, they may punish him. That's because they fear he won't be properly inculcated into the role of a man.

As a result, most boys grow up to become men fearful of acting like a woman.

There's nothing wrong with this except that some of best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called "Dandies."

They bounce back-and-forth between acting like a woman and a man.

Their attraction magic lies in that they cannot be pigeonholed as a man or woman.

When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.

Sigmund Freud said that the libido is inherently bisexual. In other words, we are equally attracted to our same sex.

But but being stigmatized prevents most of us from acting out these urges.

The Dandy appeals to women because he is a woman stuck in a man's body.

Dandies are notoriously insolent: they have very little need to please people - especially women. This is another facet of their allure.

To become a Dandy, train yourself to be attentive to detail, relinquish your need to please others, and develop your feminine side.

Here are a few historical Dandies: Rudolph Valentino, Oscar Wilde, and Andy Warhol.

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