How To Be A Charmer

Do you know what charm is?

Most people don't.

Most men think bragging ad nauseum about their accomplishments, about all the interesting places they've been, and about girls they've conquered is charming.

It's not.

Most women yap on and on about their problems. Save it for therapy. No one wants to hear it. Even worse, it will kill any smidgen of charm you have.

What are charmers and what do they do?

Most of them are master manipulators. Some are even sociopaths.

But most of us are so stuck inside our own heads that we cannot tell when they are manipulating us.

There's something else that blinds us from knowing when the charmer is taking advantage of us.

Most people think sociopaths and manipulators lack empathy.

On the contrary, manipulators and sociopaths are masters at empathizing.

The word "empathy" literally means to see where the other person is coming from, to put yourself in the other person's shoes.

Although many charmers are devoid of any sympathy, they are great at demonstrating empathy. This is what makes them so deadly.

While most people are only concerned with themselves, the charmer makes the other person feel that he understands them.

He also recedes into the background and allows others to shine.

By doing this he's playing on people's biggest weaknesses: their ego, vanity, and self-esteem.

As soon as he thaws away their defenses, he takes advantage of them.

I am not suggesting that you become a sociopath.

Nonetheless, you can learn a lot from the charmer. Drop your ego and listen to women. Make them feel like the center of the universe and you'll have them in your trap.

Before you know it, they'll be catering to your every whim.

So here's my assignment to you:

Take a few moment to imagine that of person you enjoy being around.

I'm willing to bet these are people who make you feel good about yourself. They allow you to be the center of attention and laugh at your jokes.

That's how you want to make women feel.

You might be wondering: why? Because when we like being around people we will do anything for them.

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